If I c a female wearing, like, a top where it's strap is as narrow as the bra, I usually find the visible bra strap distracting 'cause I wish she would wear only the top (unless the bra is required for social etiquette purposes.) I happen 2 find a woman's shoulders incredibly alluring. Do u find VBS's as a hindrance of viewing more skin on a girl's shoulders? R u also a fan of invisible panty lines? (& have u spotted such a thing?) Females, u can also chime in if you'd feel comfortable wearing a bra w/ a spaghetti-strapped cami, tank top, or dress.