Best spanking implement 4 my Hubby? Best position? I want maximum embarrassment & reasonable level of pain!?

Question

I won a grudge bet with my husband. I get to spank him (30 whacks) with anything (in reason) in any position(s) on two successive days. He, of course, must be absolutely nude.
My only knowledge of this sort of thing is an occasional bare bottom smacking (with hand) from him on previous bets or my last birthday.
What is a good WEAPON ? What POSITION is most humiliating & effective? No "injury" is intended of course, just a punishment to remember.
I'm considering ping pong paddle, frat-like paddle, yardstick, ruler, hairbrush, wooden spatula. What else??? What suits my purpose?
What position yields the most punishment & embarrassment? Standing straight up? Hands on knees? Elbows on desk? Touching toes? Or over the knee? anything else??
Please believe he deserves this lesson & I'm not out to really hurt my guy. Please suggest the proper implement & the position.
Sorry to be naive, thanks for ideas.

Answer 1

Most embarrassing for guys I'd say : Being stark naked, Being bent over - lap, knee, sofa. & Hand spanks. (the weapons can be a little more painful, but your hand smacking his bare buns is more embarrassing)



What was the bet about? What would u have had to do if you lost?

Answer 2

Spanking Position

Answer 3

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Best spanking implement 4 my Hubby? Best position? I want maximum embarrassment & reasonable level of pain!?

I won a grudge bet with my husband. I get to spank him (30 whacks) with anything (in reason) in any position(s) on two successive days. He, of course, must be absolutely nude.

My only knowledge of this sort of thing is an occasional bare bottom smacking (with hand) from him on previous bets or my...

Answer 4

Well, I've never spanked a male, but the concepts can't be too different between spanking females and males.



A stout hairbrush, wooden if possible, would make the best implement. It packs a reasonable level of punch to make it considerably painful, but is small and easier for a woman's smaller hand to wield.



As for position, putting him over your knee would probably be the most humiliating, as it puts him in a position of inferiority to you. It may also remind him of childhood punishments that he may have received. To increase the humiliation factor, push him further over your lap until his head almost touches the floor. This will put his bottom above his head, increasing the feeling of helplessness and powerlessness.

Answer 5

While it's often unpopular, I'm a big believer in spanking. It definitely gets the point across. That said, I think that it should only be necessary to spank kids so many times. I'm wondering why your son is so bad (not judging, just trying to understand). If there's an underlying issue there, like your kid is stressed, he reacts to your stress, he has emotional issues, he's always tired or hungry when you get to the store... or any one of a zillion other things, this might just be his way of acting them out. Personally, my son (4 yrs) is a sweet boy, wild but with a good heart and a desire to please. He hates change or uncertainty, though, and reacts badly. When he's stressed, he hits, bites, yells and acts like a world class troll. Spanking makes him understand that that's unacceptable, but figuring out what's bugging him stops the behavior and settles him down. I also make sure I praise my kids more than I punish them. Honestly, with a 3 and a 4 year old, I do quite a bit of both. I also always tell them that I love them, even when they get in trouble, and tell them that I know they really are good kids, they just had a moment of acting bad. Would it help if he came into the store with a toy, or if you had a snack in your purse to distract him when he would normally pitch a fit? Could you just avoid the toys altogether for a while, get him out of the habit of screaming at the store? Or could you just put him down and walk off a ways (my Mom did that...it only takes one good time)? Good for you for paying attention to what's happening with your child, rather than just spanking him, and for being willing to do what you think is right (even at Wal-Mart, a place full of opinionated mamas). I guess my short advice is this: Keep doing what you're doing, but look for any other reasons for the behavior, or solutions that aren't so hard on you and him. You never know what it might be. Good luck, and many blessings. It ain't easy being a mommy, but it's oh, so worth it!

Answer 6

I can't speak for guys, but I've experienced most of the options you mention. All those weapons have good points, but overall I'd say a broad 18" ruler is very effective. I hate to get it with a frat paddle too. Any position works, the pain isn't a lot different. Being bare butt over someone's lap or knee is very embarrassing. Really no way is best, go with the moment. Try it all!! Have fun.

Answer 7

I always thought a ping-pong paddle would be a good thing to use. Once I had a headache and I was hitting myself with a ping-pong paddle on my thighs or whatever to distract from the head pain and it worked pretty well. The right KIND of pain, you know? Get a paddle that has those little dots on them. Wouldn't want it to be too smooth after all. ;)

Answer 8

You should prepare yourself mentally and emotionally with the fact that you are going to spank your husband and that this fact will forever change the dynamics of your relationship. If there are aspects of his behavior that have always bothered you then this is an opportunity to turn the tables on him. I recommend you find a sturdy paddle/hairbrush/showerbrush and plan to put him over your knee. Pace yourself because it is easy to tire yourself out by starting to fast and always lecture him during his spanking on his behavior. And most important, make sure you spank his bare bottom with the intent of reducing him to a sobbing child who is promising to be good if you'll just stop spanking him. And then of course, he should be put in the corner and when you feel it's time...send him to bed.

Answer 9

The long flat ruler is very good and it is the implement my wife likes the more. In a nice bending down position, I can see by the movement of her bare bottom how much she enjoys.

Answer 10

Sounds like you guys have a fun and exciting marriage! I would actually look into buying a paddle! It sounds like the spankings are a usual thing in your house!

Make him touch toes, that would be the most shock value!!!

Answer 11

A small leather paddle is sufficient. To make it last have him kneeling on all fours. Only drawback is he might like it and he may ask for it again.

Answer 12

tell him he is getting a spanking when we get home. I had that done several times and grew 8 shades of red. do that like at a grocery store