Please help, everyone at school hates me?

Question

This popular girl spread all these rumors about me. One of the rumors is that I called this other popular girl a slut. Another one is that I made out with that same girl's boyfriend. I denied all the rumors, and now everyone thinks I'm a slutty, jealous liar. I only have 2 people who don't hate me. Everyone else is being really nasty to me. This has been going on since Monday. How do I get everyone to stop hating me?

Answer 1

Take comfort in knowing that real life is nothing like high school, and that these people are probably going to be working at McDonald's in their 30s while you're making something of your life.

Answer 2

Hello Audrey,



Welcome to the "normal" life of a high school teenager. This ALWAYS happens. I have probably answered a question like this for about 10 times, and I've only just joined yahoo answers:) So be rest-assured that you are not the only one. Time flies, and before you know it you won't even remember about this anymore. All these drama only happens mainly in high school, and it helps to make you a stronger person for the future.



I suffer daily from situations like this in school from popular cliques. But you know something that I just realized? Those popular girls are actually really depressed. Last week, I realized that one of the leaders of the popular clique had a lot of cuts on her wrist. I was really shocked. So I asked her: "What happened to your hand?" She was really reluctant and kept her arm distant from me. "Oh, it was art."



But it was nowhere near art! There were probably around 5 scars! It was scary to think that someone as PERFECT and POPULAR and SO-LIKED like her would try to self-harm. But then I realized that everyone's life had problems. She might be popular and even the leader of the clique, but she SELFHARMS which means she is really really depressed.



I am sorry this is soooo long. You've probably have fallen asleep by now :) Wake up? LOL. So what I am saying is that those people who made rumors about you...well trust me, they're not that happy themselves. Act as if you don't give a SHEEEETTT what they say. Ignore them and they will realize that what they are doing isnt fun because it is having no affect on you. The more you make it disturb you, the more they will do it.



Love,

Swirlypop :) xoxo

Answer 3

You can't stop people from hating you. If it provides you any mental solace, if the girl was willing to go to that much extent to slander you in the first place, she must be very insecure and/or jealous of you. Anyways, you can't stop people from hating you unless you earn their trust back somehow and if anyone else says anything to you, say very steadfast, and DO NOT spaz out when you say it, "Those are rumors that she spread about me, she is lying." If you spaz out and get all mad the moment anyone mentions it they're going to think you're lying, you need to keep your cool. Also, the internet is a very good place to vent, honestly. I've been through several forum websites where I just hung out in the lounge and talked to people, and whenever anyone had problems they would post and others would be there for them. So just keep with the friends you have and you'll be fine, and summer is coming up. It's amazing how quickly people will forget and just generally stop caring about things if you give them a little time. Good luck.

Answer 4

They are just playing follow the leader. They don't really hate you but, if they act like they like you they won't be "Cool". Just write a letter to the popular girl and say "You know I wasn't calling you a slut before but, I am now. I also think your friend is a dips*** for starting those rumors too. SO go F*** yourself. That ougta get your point across that you don't really care and other people will respect that. If you act like it hurts you they will just keep doing it.

Answer 5

Oh **** that sucks

I dont think there is really a way to fix it

but be strong and get through it

just remember once time pass none of these people will matter in your life

It's all about you

You know what you're all about

Make new friends somewhere else... like get a job or something.

Screw the idiots! it will definitely end

all you have to do is get through it

but once you do you'll become a stronger and better person

Answer 6

make peace with the "popular girl", theres got to be a reason why shes spreading rumors. As well, deny the accusations, but be calm, laugh it off, dont get flustered. Worst thing you can do is make a scene. Resolve it quietly, and ull be fine. good luck

Answer 7

You are going to h ave to ignore it. They are just being dumb and if you ignore it and act like its not bothering you then they'll realize its not fun to make up rumors about you anymore. The point is to do it to people that get easily irritated and give a reaction... You must be in junior high or high school. Toughen up its a cruel world out there hun!

Answer 8

find the person that spread the rumors and make an example of them



basicaly do what feel right to you, although in situations like this it can be hard to be sure of what that is. It will pass, especially because the spotlight is on you now and people will get to see that your actually not like that.



EDIT: dont try to "kill them with kindness" because that is obviously not what you are feeling. That will just be denying your own feelings and putting theirs ahead of yours. Be yourself, regardless of what that is

Answer 9

Don't speak to their rumors or dwell on them - it gives more power to the "popular" people. Over time their popularity fades. Spend your energy in positive ways - making friends and being available to people as a friend.



Your teen years are painful but they pass quickly. Good luck!

Answer 10

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Answer 11

wow, that's gotta be tough:/ i'm sorry, girl! just go up to the girl who

thought you called her a slut and made out with her boyfriend and

try to talk to her and explain that none of that's true and you don't

know why someone would make up a rumor so nasty, but they did

and you had nothing to do with it.

Answer 12

Welcome to High School.



Have you seen the movie Mean Girls.



That is how most high schools in the usa are.



Just ignore it, you know the truth, thats all you need to know.



Eventually the rumors will die and things will go back to normal.



In the mean time, just dont act like it phases you, dont add fuel to the fire.

Answer 13

Only reason I believe you is because one of the beautiful girls I've ever know went through that pariah phase.



short version: Screw em.They'll find something new to go on about soon. The friends that stick you with you are the good ones.

Answer 14

well I can only think of what works for politicians and the best thing to do is ignore it in that situation. eventually people will just forget about it. If you keep defending yourself then that just prolongs the issue.

Answer 15

Oh they will forget about it once those mean girls attack someone else and spread more rumors.

Answer 16

just be nice to everyone, even the popular girl

if they be nasty to you, just smile & walk away

kindness kills

this girl was being kinda mean to me one day, cuz i was hanging out with a girl she hates

i just ignored her the whole day, and she stopped and never was mean to me again

Answer 17

hey, high school doesn't mean a damn thing, wait until college, that's when the fun really begins.



if you really want to settle the score with that popular chick, challenge her to a girl fight.

Answer 18

ignore it i had worse someone who hated me and my guy friend {no not boyfriend I didn't have one in high school}



but mine was



me and him went out

had sex

he got me prego

we had to drop out of school

to get married and take care of a kid

at 15

Answer 19

Hi,



BTW this is second time happened with u..... if u remember....



May be u really done this or by mistake happened......



Simple, ignore them & don't react with arguments as more u do arguments so same they are going to spoil u.

Answer 20

Beat up the popular girl.

Answer 21

find the person who started the rumors and rip their spine out through their @$$

Answer 22

Tell everyone to f*ck off, or just ignore them.

I promise you, those rumors will die just as fast as they had started. (-;

Answer 23

Do not worry about that ignore all this and be happy n never gets tention

Answer 24

Ignore it. And be pleasant and nice. Things will soon get better. Trust me about that.

Answer 25

i read in a magazine i think it was seventeen that said if a persons rep was ruined they should just focus on being successful with your schoolwork

Answer 26

Act like nothing they say or do bothers you then they will get tired of being that way to you when they see it doesn't bother you.

Answer 27

You look older in your avatar photo than high school. Is that your real photo or is that a fake photo?

Answer 28

That crap happend to me at two different schools and now i'm homeschooled=]

It never ends to be honest.

Answer 29

How old are you? It will pass with your age. It's a female rite of passage. Don't stress.

Answer 30

Just move on, maybe you could move to another school.

Answer 31

it just means they jealous u the best and they know it

Answer 32

knock that ***** out and if that doesn't work act like it doesn't bother you and when someone tells you off cuss them out hope i helped

Answer 33

who cares!!! just stick to those that dont hate you and stop worrying or you will alienate them too!!!!

Answer 34

find one of the girls and beat the piss out of her.

Answer 35

just ignore them and when they see that you dont pay attention to them they will stop..

Answer 36

ohhhhhhh well dont talk to anyone in school

Answer 37

Kill her with Kindness.

Answer 38

at the end it wont even matter...

Answer 39

You'll get through it. = )

Answer 40

And you have problems? geesh!

Answer 41

you cant

it will die down though just give it time



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