Would you ever share a hotel with a guy you just met on the bus?

Question

Well, Its a little more expalined than the question itself, LOL.

Lets say you are between 21-30 years old. You love to travel, you are traveling on the greyhound (or whatever the busses that go a long distance are called in your area) to another state/province just to get away from all the things happening in your life, just to take a 4 day vacation alone. The bus ride is 38 hours long. After 1 hour on the bus, another quick stop at another area for more passegers to board. The seats quickly fill. Now comes along a guy; good looking and well built, asks you if you mind if he sits there (beside you). You say sure.

The two of you start talking pretty much from the beginning(nothing really else to do) just about life in general. After a while its been hours, still talking with eachother, when there are pit stops on the bus you guys eat together, at 4am you both fall asleep and wake up together in your seats at 11, then have breakfast together. Overall he's very interesting, good listener, mature, friendly and holds conversations extremely well. You ask him where he's headed to anyways, and by total fluke he is going to the exact same town you are going to for 4 days(you would have never thought). He's going on a trip to stay at a hotel as so are you, and his grandmother is staying at the hospital with cancer and is going to visit her too. He's 19 years old.

About 3 hours before arrival, after you have gotten to know eachother quite well, he mentions that since you're going to stay at a hotel and so is he, he asks if you would like to get a hotel room together that has 2 beds, which is cheaper, and can do things together in the town while your there together (since you are on a little vacation), and says if you would like to do that. Its very obvious he likes you, you seem to like him too.

What would you say? Would you think its a good idea and would like to, or would you decline and rather stay in your own hotel room alone? Of course it doesn't mean you are going to have sex, but of course it is a possability. It does probably mean though, you would be spending time and getting to know eachother better, watching movies late at night and little things like that.

Thanks, I'd love to hear opinions!

Answer 1

Only if I was gay,which I'm not...I'd share a room if it was a woman.

Answer 2

being with him on the bus is a little different from being alone in a hotel room, its not a good idea, you still do not know him, you would be taking a big chance with your life, he may be the nicest guy but, you should never take chances like that, most young people are very trusting, thats how they get into trouble, if he had a car and wanted to give you a ride while you were walking down the street, would you get in the car, you could be asking for trouble. its better to be safe then sorry

Answer 3

I would say no to the hotel bit, but hanging around, sure.

Have you seen Taken? That really creeped me out about talking too much to strangers.



Hey you wouldn't happen to live in Australia? Because thats a bus company here.

Answer 4

I'm sorry, I don't have that much time to spare for a details like your one. But, I went through your details & my answer is negative anyhow. As you mentioned earlier that you were traveling to get out of all the things happened to you! In this case, sharing a room with another (even a distant friend) is not desirable!

Answer 5

This is a little explanation??????



I would never share a hotel room with some guy I do not know very well. I would share a hotel with him though. So long as he's in another room.

Answer 6

no



just don't trust people



no matter how well you think you know them.



you ever see Thelma & Louise (1991)? lol

Answer 7

You only live once, I would. Otherwise you'll never know what could have been.

Answer 8

Hell no. He could be a murderer or rapist, etc. You never know.

Answer 9

i would say yes. :) but if he's 19 and your like what 21? im sure he would like that. lmao. :) hahaha. yes, i would. hypothetically speaking he sounds really sweet :) lol.

Answer 10

Would that guy be hot ? If yes then duh....lol