I think about how I look in my future rather than my future?

Question

Lately, well for the past year and half I would say, I have been focused on how am I going to look in 10-20 years... I am scared of getting and looking fat and I think about where I want to live and how I want to live my life and how I want to get away from some people, but in the mean time I realized that I am slacking in school.... I think about my image in the future rather than deciding which college I want to go to and which job I defintley want to pursue...... Help me?? What should I do to stop focusing on stupid image, I am very self concious and have a low self esteem so that is why I think about that more... But I would rather think about my brains future so how can I do that?

Answer 1

How old are You? If You're in your teens or young adulthood [early 20's], i guarantee You'll grow out of it. It's usually just a phase thing

Answer 2

I already traveld throughout the previous to get right here, so having to do it yet back isn't precisely my theory of relaxing, so i assume that's the destiny, as we are all heading there anyhow, lol

Answer 3

You just stop caring? It's not that hard.