Why are people getting married so soon?

Question

I see alot of people getting married at the ages of 17, 18, 19. And I mean sure they probably love their significant other enough to marry them but why so soon? Why is everybody in such a rush these days?

Answer 1

yeah I know



and they always end up in divorces

Answer 2

A century or less ago people aged 19 were already married and had 2 or 3 kids. Must be some sort of "retro" thing going on.

Answer 3

My mom told me that when I turned 18, I was on my own. No car, no college, no money - nothing.

So I asked my boyfriend of two years if he would marry me, because I didn't know what else to do! He said yes, and now, 30 years and two kids (and now 1 grandson!) later, we are still deeply in love and will be married until the end.

Answer 4

the place are u from and how previous r u? This subject makes many women tense, u might desire to attend and notice cuz delaying the marriage might desire to be ibtla2 from Allah. awaken on the purely precise 0.33 of the night, pray and do dua' to Allah and do not forget the istghfar is fairly significant. Edit @asker: u r 21, u nonetheless youthful, don't be tense, purely shop asking Allah to deliver a robust husband, ladies won't be in a position to do something different than waiting till finally the adult males locate us. @asket: while u ask for God's forgiveness by using asserting ?????? ???? (repeat it better than one hundred situations each and every day) @asker: i will verify it this night insh'Allah :) @virgo: i heard that salat al haja is a mattress'A, do u have any concept?

Answer 5

Because they are bored and have nothing better to do with their time. They get out of high school and suddenly, they aren't surrounded by drama anymore. So they need something else to make their life resemble a soap opera. What better? A long series of marriages and messy divorces! Yay!

Answer 6

I'm a sophomore (19) at a Christian college and here it's weird NOT to be engaged... peer pressure? I know I get antsy sometimes. My room mate got engaged this year and my boyfriend and I have been dating the same amount of time they have been, and we aren't engaged.

Answer 7

The Mayans believe the world will end in 2012. Better get hitched before it's too late. O_o

Answer 8

maybe some people are starting to realize that going through life with a committed, caring, loving and equal partner who will be your best and closest friend for life is a lot better than f-----g most of your life away... and want to get as much of that joy in their lives as they can.

Answer 9

I think they simply want to have their own lives.

But I think it's still best to wait until you are in your mid or late twenties to get married, that way you'll not be only mentally stable but as well as financially.



^__^

Answer 10

everybody probably starts seeing more and more love around them, and feels insecure and fells they need to get married, plus hormones



teehee

Answer 11

Some people must just learn the hard way

Answer 12

They only get married cause wedding dances are a good party.

Answer 13

I don't understand it either. I'm 24 and I still don't want to be married yet. I'm enjoying my freedom.

Answer 14

ive noticed that too...and no idea why they would be getting married so fast.



it could be that people have been ingrained to save sex for marriage and they are horny so marriage = fun times....i guess..

Answer 15

It's all the super devil's fault. Curse him and his jar of marmalade.

Answer 16

cuz the world's ending in 2012

Answer 17

They have a fantasy about what love is and what it will be.

Answer 18

Never!

Answer 19

they want sex