Thinking of having sex with your female friends when you already have a girlfriend/wife?

Question

Is it normal to want to have sex with your female friends even though you have a girlfriend/wife? I'm not planning on doing so, because I know that actually doing so is wrong... but is merely thinking about it wrong as well? Or is it just normal human behaviour?

Have you ever thought about it yourself?

Answer 1

Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural. As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean). Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair. But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad. But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that. Use that energy on your wife/gf!

Answer 2

Some men have sex with their female friends more than they have sex with their girlfriend...and having sex should be reserved for someone special..... nowadays some men and women have sex with random people just because he or she is attractive or have money... And wonder why their single ...stop giving up the sex to friends and strangers lol..

Answer 3

It's normal in small doses. More means you are not happy with something in your life, usually the wife.

Answer 4

It's a normal part of being a guy. Men will naturally notice whoever they find attractive, and it's natural to appreciate the attractiveness of anyone who comes within your radar. It's completely normal, and the more you try to stop it the more it will probably happen. If you feel like you want to have sex with your female friends MORE than your girlfriend, then there's probably a problem with your relationship. But assuming that you just appreciate the idea of it on occassions that you see them looking sexy, it's normal.

Answer 5

I think you are being a guy. Its normal, if you act on it, while being a normal animal instinct is socially unacceptable.

Answer 6

To act on it is wrong but, to think on it is okay. I think it really is just part of our human behavior. So think away !

Answer 7

It's normal to have fantasies.....but you have to be realistic and know you can't act on them because of course they would ruin your current relationship.