My b/f.
He is so sane, and reasonable, and yet always so positive.
He believes feelings should be shared to be dealt with, always listens, and then gives such a calm, rational point of view!
He makes me laugh. He has this quiet, sneaky DRY sense of humor.
Once someone sent me a really vicious, personally vicious e-mail, about family stuff. I was so angry, and so upset that I was just shaking.
I forwarded it to him.
His comments were something like "That was a real eye-opener, wasn't it? Seems plain they aren't going to meet you half-way on this one!" "Glad you sent it to me, feelings have to be shared to be dealt with." "We can try [Plan B] later..."
Bing! Back to rationality for me! His support, and rational outlook just drained ALL the poison away.
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P.S. On this site, when some of the meanness, and stupidity, and vulgarity get me down, I run straight to stinky and OFF MY MEDS! :-)) Their cheerful silliness never fails to cheer me up! Thanks, guys!
Moonriver's unfailing sweetness and friendliness never fails me, either! :-))
There are others, as well, whose intelligent, well-spoken answers always revive me! I don't want to turn this into a popularity contest, but I think they know who they are! :-))