Is he joking or is he actually kinky..?

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Your Open Question: Is he joking or is he actually kinky?

Everytime I poke my boyfriend's stomach he will tell me to stop as he doesn't like it.

However, every time I get angry he would tell me how sexy he finds me like that. Once I threatened to tie him up as a joke and he said "ooh kinky." I also told him I'd slap him and he said "oh please do."

Other times I'd pinch him and he'd moan "ohhh yesss," and when I lightly kick him he tells me that it doesn't hurt him and that "some people actually enjoy these things." There have been several other occasions in which I'd threaten him/or punch him lightly, and he would moan and tell me to keep doing it. Or comment about how feisty and kinky I am.

But is he actually into that kinda thing? I asked him and his response was "let's try it and see." I am just really curious. If he did like it, why did he only like it SOMETIMES? He doesn't ever do anything kinky to me, though. He likes it done to him. The only time I recall him saying something like that to me was once, he held up his fist and said "I want to.....you" which I think would mean "I want to fist you" - he was joking though. Another time, he threaded to "pinch" me where I would scream his name. Again, another joke.

Is he only joking to annoy me/have fun? Or given the chance, would he actually want to do these things? Do you think he fantasizes about things like that, but lets it out in a joking manner?

He's a guy. I doubt he means what he's saying

Asked by Diana 49 minutes ago 4 days left to answer.

Answer 1

he might like the kinky sex try it out on him and see if he does then that will tell the truth

Answer 2

It's both, joking and fantasy. Every guy at least once had a fantasy of dominating a girl or be dominated by her. Though in this situation he is only teasing you.

Answer 3

Yeah that totally sounds like he's joking lol. I have guy friends who are the same way.

Answer 4

Sorry i didn't read the whole thing.